Build Your Football Confidence - With The Confidence Coach
Confidence - The Great Enigma
My mailbox is filled on a weekly basis with enquries from frustrated managers and anxious coaches. They ask me the same questions again and again.
Tell me about Confidence. Why do my players lose it? And, how can they get it back. Now!
Confidence is one of the great enigmas in football. Maybe the greatest enigma. It doesn't matter if you have been in the game all your life, there is no coaching manual, or FA course that adequately explains how to rebuild lost confidence.
It has remained one of the great unexplained mysteries of the game.
One week you have confidence - the next it's gone. But no one seems to know why.
For the last twenty four years, I have been researching confidence...what it is...where it goes when we lose it...how to regain it. Studying the best-kept secrets of the worlds most confident performers..in sport, business and politics.
I coach and lecture around the world on the enigma of confidence.
I assist professional players, desperate for help, who turn to me to regain their confidence. I know why we lose confidence...and more importantly how to get it back.
I have recently...
- Helped an international defender, who had been left out in the cold, regain his place
in the national team.
- Helped a player who had become resigned to permanent reserve team football, become club Player Of The Year
- Helped a defender who had been in the game for ten years, score his first ever first team goal.
- Helped an experienced player whose future looked uncertain, secure a two year deal.
- Helped a young player who had lost confidence, not only break through into the first team, but win international honours.
So - I am uniquely placed to help you back on track.
Why Is Confidence Lost?
So here are some of the top ten reasons which cause lost confidence;
- When a coach constantly focuses on what a player has done wrong rather than on the things they do right
- When individuals are undermined
- When a demanding crowd gets on a player's back
- When players are judged by their mistakes
- When the manager drops a player and fails to offer an explanation
- When a player is constantly criticised - by team-mates and management
- When a player starts comparing themselves unfavourably to others
- When a player loses form and doesn't know why
- When a player starts beating themselves up for underperforming
- When the team lose confidence and lack the mental strength to turn things around
Once confidence has gone, doubt and uncertainty seep in and will soon prevail. The insecure player, or team, enters a phase of negative behaviour which becomes increasingly difficult to break. Fear of defeat leads to indecision, which leads to further self-doubt, which leads to failure. A cycle of failure is established.
So how best to recover confidence?
My confidence coaching is designed to help you break the lock of doubt and connect to your natural confidence. Remember - I understand why we lose confidence and more importantly how to get it back.
If you have never experienced the power of confidence coaching before, then I would like to offer you a coaching taster session.
The coaching taster is a free, no obligation 30 minute telephone coaching session with
The Confidence Coach. During the session, I will listen and you will get a chance to speak to me about the negative influences that are impacting upon your natural confidence.
In return, I will offer you insights that explain why you have lost your confidence and tips to get you started, straight away, to overcoming doubt.
Following this conversation, we will design a strategy together, that will show you a clear path as to how we will beat the doubts.
So - here's an opportunity to get the coaching process moving immediately.
Please write a response to each of these questions, then send it to me using the 'Start Coaching' button at the end of the form. You will then receive an invitation from me, for your FREE Confidence Coaching session.
This is a NO OBLIGATION session, that allows you to experience the power of Confidence Coaching.
Remember - you could wait and hope that by magic, your confidence returns. But experience tells me that rarely happens. There is a reason why you have lost your confidence. The sooner we get started, the faster you will be back to your confident best.
PS - The reason this session is FREE is simple. Many of my clients would not have benefited from my coaching without first experiencing it. It is difficult to convey the power of coaching through words alone.
Important Note - Should you try my Confidence Coaching and find that after one month the coaching has not had a positive effect on your confidence, then I will return your monthly fee in full. No questions asked.
